DELTASION.com – Bringing yourself to be able to socialize in society is
something that must be done by everyone. This relates to fluency in everyday
communication.
However, it cannot be denied, sometimes there is a sense of worry about how
people will judge us when we are in a public place. No need to overthink, try
doing these five things.
1. None of the foreigners really noticed
Being in an environment that we already know will make us calmer in carrying
ourselves. This will have a different story if we are placed in conditions
that are foreign to us.
When we entered, many eyes then looked and watched us from head to toe. Then,
we will have a negative perception. In fact, they don’t really pay attention
to foreigners.
2. People’s views are just reflexes, gradually they will be busy themselves
The gaze fixed on us is not solely for judgmental purposes. The majority, they
stare as a reflex form of the presence of new people, and it will be done to
anyone, including ourselves.
Therefore, there is no need to worry too much about something that happens to
everyone. As soon as they finished staring, they would go back to their own
business.
3. People will forget what they just saw
No one really remembers the fleeting events they’ve just seen, including the
time we were there. They only remember their own work and affairs.
We can be calmer to enter a new environment because there is no judgment that
we have been worried about. Other people have their business, and so do we.
4. There is no obligation to meet social standards
It is natural for us to try to adapt to social circumstances. However, this
does not mean that we must always and always follow social standards.
Everyone is free to express himself without being constrained by social
demands. People’s judgments mean no more than how we see and judge ourselves.
5. It is important to focus on yourself, goals and personal endeavors
Instead of worrying about what other people think of us, it would be wiser if
we chose to focus on ourselves. There are still many goals and dreams to
achieve.
Therefore, it is better for us to be diligent in trying to make dreams come
true. This will make us more focused and closer to our goals, so we don’t have
time to worry about what other people think.
Everyone has a tendency to worry about people’s judgment. However, we need to
realize that no foreigner is fully paying attention. Just focus on yourself,
gradually the worry will disappear.